tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4735490260917865846.post7138435888124303847..comments2023-11-05T06:13:22.066-05:00Comments on Shut My Mouth: While barred clouds bloom the soft-dying day, And touch the stubble plains with rosy hueEve Greyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15077634478375543118noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4735490260917865846.post-36521760623380185412008-09-25T15:37:00.000-04:002008-09-25T15:37:00.000-04:00sometimes the divorce is forced on you.the thing t...sometimes the divorce is forced on you.<BR/><BR/>the thing to always remember is kids first. that is also the first thing they forget... the battling parents.<BR/><BR/>there lies the heartache.quin brownehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09804746948797234402noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4735490260917865846.post-46649126488931898122008-09-25T01:27:00.000-04:002008-09-25T01:27:00.000-04:00The troubles really never end, it seems..The troubles really never end, it seems..vinnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16716825660889782074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4735490260917865846.post-83251500712908452452008-09-24T17:26:00.000-04:002008-09-24T17:26:00.000-04:00That is always sad when good friends decide to par...That is always sad when good friends decide to part ways but yes I'm afraid its just another one of those things in life that everyone has to deal with. Still sucks though.Soge shirtshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16726787866181861491noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4735490260917865846.post-80779099089479727232008-09-23T14:20:00.000-04:002008-09-23T14:20:00.000-04:00When SWMBO and I got married it was with the under...When SWMBO and I got married it was with the understanding - I had been through one divorce and the word was never going to be in our vovcabulary. 31 years later and we're still at it. The rules have changed over time. As attitudes and appetites have changed we've made room for them in 'us'. We love and respect each other. And we forgot the word a long, long time ago.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13024392628362568010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4735490260917865846.post-29543916403201854182008-09-23T13:14:00.000-04:002008-09-23T13:14:00.000-04:00How do you keep a marriage together? Don't get di...How do you keep a marriage together? Don't get divorced! After 19 years with my husband, that's the only truth I can come up with. There was a time several years ago when we might 'easily' have divorced (quotations b/c divorce is hard). He'd done something horrible, I was devastated and divorce seemed the only possible way out of the mess. Eventually he fixed it, I forgave him mostly, and we're happily together still. Life is often boring. There's always someone who has more money. Odds are, most of us are going to meet someone else who rocks our world. But to weather it and find yourself with someone whose company you really enjoy is a marvel. Having said that, we have no children and we allow each other a great deal of personal freedom - with rules - which perhaps makes things 'easier'. And it could all fall apart tomorrow. Welcome to my early 50's!Beehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08903182543343572716noreply@blogger.com